Friday, June 28, 2013

The Magic Touch-how we survived Disneyland

It seems that Walt Disney's touch is not lost, even to its' oldest and youngest visitors. The day after my half-marathon, Mr. Fliz and I took the brood (accompanied by Lola) to Disneyland. Where else would we celebrate, right? Despite my aching lower half and after a 7-hour ride down south, it was with much glee that we landed a room with a perfect view of the Disneyland fireworks that go on each night (so long as it's a clear night). And with those fireworks, the magic of Disney began for everyone.

Read here for a more detailed narrative of our trip and my review of our hotel here. My family and I thoroughly enjoyed DL. Of course, a trip to The Happiest Place on Earth can be painstakingly expensive. However, I feel we did a fairly good job of balancing having fun and not going overboard on purchases and activities. With that in mind, I scoured the internet for helpful tips on managing our experience. After all, when you see DL through the eyes of a 2 and 4-year old, you can't help but want to buy everything too. 

There is no shortage of websites that are dedicated to all things Disney. These Disney fanatics offer insightful and resourceful advice on where to dine, the best spots to watch fireworks/parades, what ticket lines move the fastest, to how to entertain the kids when they get bored in line. Some good, well-thought out, and resourceful sites I found are as follows: Mousesavers.com, Allears.net, and DisneyTouristblog.com, to name just a few. Of course, for you Disney pros, please let me know of other sites you like. Going to a big amusement park with young ones can be stressful. The heat, the long lines, the desire to want to buy all these beautiful toys, tchotchkes, apparel, the exorbitant prices of food--your amusement park experience can go downhill quickly. 

My approach with my kids was to do my best to prepare them for what to expect, without giving too much of the magic away. A few years ago, I brought Micro to a smaller amusement park nearby to see how he would handle some small rides and learn the art of patience. It went well, and we did it a few more times with Micron in tow, too. A month prior to our trip, I introduced a little bit of what rides they might do via YouTube. I know some parents may disagree with me "giving away," or taking away from my kids' experience upon first seeing it, but I know my kids do better if they know what to expect. So I showed them some rides--not a lot, but just enough to tempt their taste buds, which provided enough anticipation. I ordered these light sticks to keep them entertained and to bring on "darker rides." Though I packed some small "bubbles" to entertain them while we waited in line, I never needed to use them-being with other kids, people watching, and PLENTY of snacks, kept them fairly preoccupied.

Granted, we went to DL on a weekday and right before most kids were out for summer break. Lines were manageable (our longest wait was for one ride and it was about an hour) and the park wasn't crazy crowded. This provided a good first experience for all of us.

I also made a point several times in the weeks leading up to our trip, that we would forgo buying any additional toys, so as to save $$ for DL. Both Micro and Micron had a piggy-banks saved with money (which grew even more last minute thanks to Lolo's generosity) that they each could spend as they pleased. However, they couldn't buy anything on the first day--that day was used to scour a few stores and figure out what toys/things they wanted to buy with their money. I didn't want them going crazy spending all their money, only to hear later, "Oh, I want this now, instead of what I got." I explained to my kids that DL is full of things they'll love, and least of it will be found in the stores. This approach worked fairly well and Micro did an ok job of learning to value what toys he really wanted. Micron hasn't developed any attachment to one particular character(s), for her, DL was all about the rides. Though, she did see plenty of girls decked out in Disney princess attire, thankfully, Micron didn't ask for any of those outfits. 

We chose a hotel with close proximity to the entrance to DL. Our kids are still fairly young to be able to handle walking all over the park for hours on end. Having a home base that was close by made our experience more enjoyable, knowing we could go back and rest for a few hours before heading back out til the wee hours of the night and not worrying about having to park or take a shuttle to the hotel. Perhaps when our kids are older and able to handle long distances on foot, we can opt for hotels further out. I bought our passes from AAA which allowed for free parking if you're thinking of driving.

Do note that fast pass tickets are not available for all rides. For a time, we used the free app, Mousewait, which gave information on wait times for rides, but sometimes it wasn't accurate. These apps are only as good as the users.

Stay tuned for another DL post.

















Monday, June 17, 2013

Seven Years

Love is amazing. It's beautiful, joyful, painful, jubilant, exhausting, rewarding, sad, and gracious. For ten years, I've loved a very special person. My right hand guy, my greatest supporter, my strength in times of darkness, and the father to the most beautiful children I know. I wouldn't have this incredible life without you by my side. Seven years today, my prayers were answered when I had the opportunity to marry the man I had asked God for. Little did I know, that our blossoming friendship would become more. Everyday, through good moments and bad, you've kept our love going. Believed in us when I was scared to, and we both came out stronger, braver, and more resilient when life threw us some curve balls. To this day, there are still some moments, when I see you, I get flutters in my gut, and overcome with giggles--because I DID marry my best friend--the guy that bought me oj almost everyday, the same guy that made walks to Walgreens a fun outing, and had faith in me when fear struck. You also happen to be a wonderful, forgiving, loving, patient, and fun Father. Our kids are blessed to have you as their father figure. You have a huge heart, are a generous and kind son, brother, and friend.

Seven years may not seem long in the grand scheme of life, but what we have lived and created, it's Beyond Beautiful. Mahal kita. 


photo by Akiko




p.s. Belated Happy Father's Day to all the fathers and father figures out there. You are an integral part of your child's/children's lives each and every moment.

Ready, Set, Go!




We're back! It's been an exhausting few weeks. I'll post about our trip to Disneyland by the end of this week. In the meantime, I finished my first half-marathon (fourth in my lifetime) after such a long hiatus from doing races. It feels good to race again. The race happened to land on the hottest day of the week, which slowed me plenty, but nonetheless, I did it. Unfortunately, I missed watching my little nuggets run the kids' mile fun run. Luckily, Mr. Fliz was there to support them and they had a blast. So proud of you, my babies. Hope that is the first of many races to come for you both. I will have to hijack some of Mr. Fliz's photos of the kiddos.

This race meant a lot to me, too, because it was a family affair. Along with my sister and I, my little cousin ran the 13.1 miles, her first half-marathon, and with no training! Crazy girl! Though she was dying by the end, she finished it with a smile on her face. My other cousin ran the 5k, and my nephew and two nieces also did the kids' fun run. There was a strong showing of family support at the finish line and I was overjoyed to be around all of them on such a wonderful day. I am so proud of everyone that participated and completed the See Jane Run race, and who could blame you, because I DO, RUN FOR CHOCOLATE. But more importantly, to raise funds for all those suffering from leukemia and lymphoma.

Micro toasting Micron on her race. Melts my heart.

My beautiful sister

Winners



Saturday, June 8, 2013

It's O-ff-i-she-al!

Micro had his promotion ceremony from preschool a week ago. It was fun, special, and priceless! My littlest dude is no longer so little. This upcoming Fall he will be in a much larger class of 24-25 kids in transitional kindergarten. He will have a more structured learning course and the teacher will be prepping him to enter Kindergarten next year. Geez, time flies and I can't wrap my head and heart around the fact he's growing so fast. It was like when I watched him bike by himself for the first time, my heart swelled with pride and love. 



Last Saturday was the unofficial start to my summer. Micro finished school, Micron completed 10 days of intensive swim classes, Mr. Fliz took his test, and I spent most of the day with my lovely sister and my giant-little cousin (who, btw, makes me laugh like no other, thanks Jo--I needed plenty of smiles and gut-wrenching, my tummy hurt, laughs.) eating excellent tapas with lots of kalimotxo, looking at bridal attire, and pretty shoes. I was pretty happy that day. The past week has me getting ready for our trip to Disneyland, meeting a new baby cousin, and running my first half after 8 long years. In fact, last week, I logged in 26 miles (spread out over 3 days). But oh man, did my body pay for those miles. This week, I ran 4 miles to warm up for my half that I'm doing with my sister and same silly giant-little cousin. 

ALSO--my littles are running their first race where they get shirts and medals! Both my littles are registered and uber-excited to do a kids' 1-mile race with their cousins. I PRAY, that I finish my half in time to see them do the race. I would be so bummed out if I miss it. I can't believe Summer is almost here and pretty soon we'll be at the Happiest Place on Earth in less than 96 hours. Woot! Woot!

Below are some snapshots of life this past week. My kids broke out their piggy banks (they have 2 each-one is for saving up for Disneyland (and misc spending) and the other goes to their savings at the bank at the end of the year) and I was pleasantly surprised that they both managed to save about $30 each for their Disneyland trip. I know it might seem silly to start teaching my littles about finance, but they'll understand the value of money early on. Tomorrow is expected to reach the high 90s for inland areas and high 70s for us along the coast--Summer, are you knocking on my door? Come on in!

Coqueta

6 mile run around Lake Merritt with my bestie

newest cousin

counting spending money for DL